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Bridging the Gap Between Heartbreak & Healing – with Lee Harris
Infidelity and betrayal leave you heartbroken, shattered, and wondering if you will ever be healed, happy, or whole again. This show takes you beyond healing and catapults you into a vision for what’s possible when you embrace next-level, multidimensional healing. In it, we will explore channeling, spirituality, and the empath/narcissist relationship dynamic so you can find the clarity, peace, and progress you deserve and desire.
Top take-a-ways:
Grief as “the great transformer” and how dark nights of the soul can inspire you to work through the layers of human wounding and find healing, boundaries, and personal power.
The power of the heart, and why heartbreak does not actually come from the heart, which lives in the present, but the head, which is replaying stories from the past.
How to trust yourself, spirit, and intuition again after you have been betrayed by others and understanding the process of spirituality so you can open yourself up to the possibility of what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Understanding “the abandoned self” and how to differentiate between unhealthy power and power that is rounded, grounded, and kind so you can find and create satisfying relationships.
FREE BONUS! Get a free healing practice that helps you to get everything that is not yours out of your body, so you can be free to embody yourself as you are. FREE when you sign up for my newsletter at www.BetrayalRecoveryCoach.com
About Lee:
Lee Harris is the author of Awaken Your Multidimensional Soul, which is the second book in his Conversations with the Z’s series, and Energy Speaks. A gifted energy intuitive and channeler, he leads a vibrant online community that reaches 1 million people every month. His acclaimed online events, members community The Portal, and top 50 spirituality podcast Impact the World are adventures into the deepest aspects of living, loving, and awakening. Lee is also an accomplished music producer and singer-songwriter whose acclaimed albums have charted as high as No. 1 on the iTunes and Amazon New Age charts. For more information visit http://www.LeeHarrisEnergy.com.
Join Lee Harris on June 14-26 for Soul Magic, an immersive journey online where channeled messages are integrated with the transcendent music of composer Davor Bozic to create a rare transformative collaboration - channeled teachings and customized musical performances. The music, created in real time in direct response to the teaching, is tuned to 528 Hz, the Love Frequency, to deepen the experience, promote healing and expand our consciousness.
This online experience includes 7 sessions, each lasting about 60-90 minutes, from June 14th - 26th. This will include live broadcasts from Lee, unique sessions with Lee & Davor creating magic in the room together, audience Q&A with Lee and an exclusive live performance from Grammy-nominated music mantra artists Deva Premal & Miten. www.LeeHarrisEnergy.com
Get your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide and FREE hypnotic meditation, Embody Yourself when you sign up for my newsletter at www.BetrayalRecoveryCoach.com
About Lora:
Author, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle help women rebuild their identity and self-worth so they can find the courage to claim what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Friday May 19, 2023
Friday May 19, 2023
How Being Broken Sets You Free to Define Yourself & Embody Who You Are
Infidelity and betrayal shatter your soul and leave you feeling broken, empty, and confused. But what if this shattering was an opportunity for the pain, toxicity, and everything that is not yours to escape your body? What if it was an opportunity for us to define who we were, and to come home to ourselves as we most authentically are? This show will shift your heart and your mind and will set you free from the pain, drama, and ruination of your partner’s affair so you can be free to live life your way.
FREE BONUS! Get a free healing practice that helps you to get everything that is not yours out of your body, so you can be free to embody yourself as you are. FREE when you sign up for my newsletter at www.BetrayalRecoveryCoach.com
Top take-a-ways:
How do you come home to yourself when you don’t know who you are? Learn to define yourself authentically.
Why a dark night of the soul is often the precursor to transformation and how to use your feelings of being broken as a bridge to grounded presence.
The power of losing yourself so you can find yourself anew.
How to be free from whatever it is that’s holding you back, so you can be free to do whatever is you most desperately want to do!
Get your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide and FREE hypnotic meditation, Embody Yourself when you sign up for my newsletter at www.BetrayalRecoveryCoach.com
About Lora:
Author, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle help women rebuild their identity and self-worth so they can find the courage to claim what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Friday May 12, 2023
Friday May 12, 2023
What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do
Nobody can be prepared for the unexpected, and betrayal is typically unexpected. Discovering your partner’s infidelity leaves you with a multitude of decisions that you suddenly have to make, even when you are unprepared. Here’s a 5-step process that you can follow whenever you feel stuck and don’t know what to do next.
Top take-a-ways:
Using the 5-step FLAUNT! process to figure out your most immediate next steps – even when you feel completely at a loss.
The power of curiosity, trying new things, and doing what you have never done before, in order to get what you have never gotten before.
How to not get caught up in the idea of “doing it right” or “doing it wrong” and to instead be in the ever-changing present moment.
About Lora:
Author, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle help women rebuild their identity and self-worth so they can find the courage to claim what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Friday May 05, 2023
Friday May 05, 2023
Guilt, Shame & Empowerment After Your Partner’s Affair
Why do I feel guilty, like I somehow caused my partner’s affair? This question is one of the most perplexing aspects of betrayal recovery. While the answer is NO, you did not cause your partner’s affair, EVER, it’s also appropriate to be able to self-reflect on the relationship, realize what you know now that you didn’t know then, see where you can do better going forward, and take steps to get healthy and clean up your side of the street. So that going forward, you are clear, strong, empowered, and confident enough to manage any situation with grace.
Top take-a-ways:
The rush of clarity and empowerment that comes from owning your so-called mistakes, and choosing to heal and grow so you can live differently and make healthier choices going forward.
A guided practice to release yourself from any guilt that you may feel for things you did that contributed to the break-down of the relationship.
Why your partner is minimizing the affair, refusing to take responsibility for his actions, and is blaming you for his choices.
About Lora:
Author, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle help women rebuild their identity and self-worth so they can find the courage to claim what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Friday Apr 28, 2023
Friday Apr 28, 2023
Your Subconscious Love Language - Understanding Love & Association
Gary Chapman’s “Five Love Languages” explain our conscious associations and desires around love. But what about our subconscious associations and desires around love? Whether you had a functional or dysfunctional childhood, all children are hardwired to love their parents – which means they interpret everything their parents do as love. Even when it’s not! That means that as an adult you and your partner can have faulty associations when it comes to love. And because they are subconscious, neither of you are even aware of those associations, let alone know how to change them!
Top take-a-ways:
Is your partner critical and negative? It’s possible that because of the way they were raised, they think that love equals criticism and riding someone’s case in order to “make them better.” Here’s how to understand and combat negative associations around love.
Discover your love associations (and your partner’s love associations) and how they have translated into your adult life and relationships.
Unhook from toxic emotions around unhealthy ways that you or your partner show love.
About Lora:
Author, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle help women rebuild their identity and self-worth so they can find the courage to claim what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Friday Apr 21, 2023
Friday Apr 21, 2023
Divorce, Finances, and Dividing Your Assets–with Lisa Zeiderman, Esq, CFL, CDFA
Finding out that your partner had an affair is devastating. Not only do you have to navigate the shock, grief, and emotional trauma of finding out that the person you loved cheated on you and betrayed you, but you must also figure out whether you want a divorce, how to divide assets, and how to manage financially for yourself and your children going forward. Which is overwhelming! Lisa Zeiderman is an attorney, CFL, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst who can help you understand and navigate the process with grace.
Top take-a-ways:
Understand the steps in the divorce process so you can best prepare for what’s to come.
Get a handle on your finances, assets, and what you can (and cannot) expect in divorce.
Why one of the most important things you can do to protect and preserve your assets is to be mindful of what you say, write, and do.
About Lisa Zeiderman:
Lisa Zeiderman is Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP, based in New York. A matrimonial attorney, CFL and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, she regularly handles complex financial and custody divorce matters, as well as pre- and post-nuptial agreements for high-net-worth individuals.
Named to the Crain’s New York list of Notable Woman Attorneys for 2022, as well as a Crain’s New York Notable Diverse Lawyer for 2022, a Hudson Valley Best Lawyer in 2023, a Super Lawyer in Metro New York since 2019, a 2021 Best Family Law Attorney for Client Satisfaction by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys, among many other awards, Lisa is a founding member of the American Academy of Certified Financial Litigators and a member of the panel for Attorneys for Children. Lisa is also a member of the Forbes Business Council.
In addition to authoring a well-read blog on Psychology Today, “Legal Matters: Understanding Mental Health Issues as They Apply to Divorce and Child Custody,” Ms. Zeiderman is regularly published in Financial Advisor Magazine, the New York Law Journal, and Forbes. She is also regularly interviewed on issues ranging from financial empowerment to complex tax issues and child custody, and has been featured in a host of media from The Wall Street Journal to Kiplinger’s, as well as on a multitude of podcasts.
Ms. Zeiderman, a Fordham University of Law graduate, also serves as the Vice President of the executive board of Savvy Ladies, Inc., the board of Family Legal Care (formerly known as LIFT, Legal Information for Families Today), and as President of the Justice Brandeis Law Society.
About Lora:
Author, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle help women rebuild their identity and self-worth so they can find the courage to claim what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Friday Apr 14, 2023
Friday Apr 14, 2023
Perfection, Self-Worth, and Affair Recovery
If you are anything like most of the women I work with, you are an amazing woman who tries hard to do things right. You’ve done the heavy lifting in your relationship, responsibly taken care of everyone and everything that needs taking care of, and you’ve always done your best. On the outside, you probably appear to be confident too. But are you worthy of messing up? Do you feel worthy of being a hot mess, making mistakes, and being angry, ugly, and a wreck? Shocking as it seems, that’s what true self-worth is about. Unconditionally loving and accepting yourself in the bad, dark, ugly times. After all, it’s easy to appreciate and love the good. Can you appreciate and love yourself in the bad?
Top take-a-ways:
The false construct of success, perfection, and achievement and how believing that “Because I’m worth it” is empowering, when it really keeps you locked in perfectionism.
Understanding why so many of us seek to make others happy and aren’t even aware of who we are and what we want.
How to “be the cake” instead of the “icing” and learn to validate and appreciate yourself instead of seeking to please others or making everyone else happy – and not you.
Why other people’s opinions of you are none of your business.
About Lora:
Author, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle help women rebuild their identity and self-worth so they can find the courage to claim what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Friday Apr 07, 2023
Friday Apr 07, 2023
Why Affairs Run in Families, Epigenetics, and Breaking Unhealthy Family Dynamics – with Johanna Lynn
Affairs rock your world and change your life. But they also help you understand deeper truths such as why you love the way you love, how family history and epigenetics impact relationships and separations, and how to resolve conflict – sometimes without even talking about it, but by dealing with your family imprint instead! It all has to do with subconscious patterning and dismantling destructive or unhealthy family patterns.
Top take-a-ways:
Unpacking what led to the affair, what was swept under the rug, and what was missed – so you can wake up to everything that was missed and never be caught off guard again.
Understanding your “Love Blueprint,” how you love, who you love, and why you are attracted to the people you are attracted to.
Why “It isn’t about forgiveness” and “Blame is the cheapest hit of power going.”
About Johanna Lynn:
Johanna is a highly trained systemic therapist who offers resolutions from long standing issues in online classes or private sessions with a focus on restoring relationships and cultivating resilient boundaries by dismantling family patterns. Learn more at www.JohannaLynn.com
About Lora:
Author, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle help women rebuild their identity and self-worth so they can find the courage to claim what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Coffee With “The Librarians” – Channeled Wisdom for Humanity
This week we’re bringing you a very different show! We’re bringing you a full hour of universal, channeled, wisdom to help you on your betrayal recovery journey. Lora channels a group of entities known as “The Librarians.” The Librarians are keepers of universal wisdom for the earth plane and their messages are meant for seekers of light. Take it slow, pause when you need to pause, and if you like what you hear, follow Lora on Facebook or YouTube where she goes live every Tuesday, with a new, live channel.
Dec.13, 2022
Truth lives inside of us all. And while none of us share the exact same truth, we all share the knowledge that our truth is important. Which is where things get difficult! While it's important for us to share what's going on inside with others, to validate our experience and to create the kinds of close relationships that we want, communication is difficult! Words are limited and cannot explain our unique perspectives, textures, and feelings. Therefore, trying to explain what's going on inside in a way that others can understand is impossible! Yes we try. And we get angry when others don't understand... Oneness comes from the shared understanding that we are all alone in our unique perspectives. That we are all unable to communicate our feelings, wisdom, and knowingness adequately. Oneness comes from being aware and honoring that we are all "right" and we are all centered in our own hearts, and that we are all alone with our own insides, and that our connection is through our unique aloneness.
Dec. 20, 2022
A piece for peace! This week’s message is about the deeper meaning and message behind Winter Solstice and darkness. While reaching outside of ourselves for light is fine because we all need inspiration at times, the task of becoming spirit
Actually awakened is about cultivating the light that’s within, not seeking external light During Winter Solstice we are in the dark for a reason and that reason is so we can find our own light. And the key is not stressing about being “good enough” or “enlightened enough” either. All we need is a PIECE of our light to find PEACE! We don’t need to illuminate the whole world, we just need to illuminate and sustain ourselves. Because Peace on Earth is attained when everyone on the planet illuminates their own hearts!
Dec. 27, 2022
Go in Grace. Go with the Flow. Allow Yourself to Receive. This week's message is about EASE and how we like to make things harder than they are. Ease is our birthright. Worlds (and humans!) are created with ease. Yes, there is the occasional cataclysmic event, but the process flows with ease, always. And when difficulties arise, life flows around those difficulties. Worthiness is not a part of it. We like to make things more difficult to prove to ourselves that we are worthy of being chosen, of receiving, of enjoying. and if you WANT to keep playing that game, you can. Just know that it is a game, and you don't have to play it. You can just flow. That's what GRACE is. It's the right to receive without being worthy. It's the right to love and live and enjoy even though you don't "deserve" to love and live and enjoy. Because the Truth (capitol T truth!) is that everyone deserves it. Nothing is conditional. Nothing is separate from God/Goddess. *Post-channel message: Look at our language around God. In the channel, Lora said he/she referring to God, and then typed God/Goddess. God/Goddess is the whole. Humans have created the separation of the whole into two-God and Goddess. Then humans stress out around gender! Life is genderless. Life is whole and complete. Life is without division. Ease and flow and grace are without division. Struggle and strife are division. Look around, it's everywhere! We love to struggle and overcome and fight and declare ourselves "right" so we can prove our own worth. Just know that it's not necessary. That's why GRACE was given to humans. We only need to receive this one gift if we want to live like Jesus/God/Goddess.
Jan. 3, 2023
When we realize the inevitability of "bad things," it allows us to partake fully in the sweetness of life. This week the Librarians want us to become aware of the cloud of fear that surrounds our hearts and planet, and instead of continuing to build up our defenses to protect against bad things that might (or might not) happen, to realize that "bad things" happening is inevitable. Not to traumatize or scare us, but to realize that protecting ourselves fully is impossible. We have limited control. Yes, we can plan and save or be safe and take precautions and that is good, but we cannot prevent, anticipate, or protect against everything When we realize the inevitability of "bad things" happening in our lives, we become more able to partake in the sweetness of life and we enjoy ourselves more.
Jan 10, 2023
Feeling our feelings is what living is all about. It doesn't matter if they are good feelings, bad feelings, or anything in between. The act of feeling is "fun" and is what being a human is all about. So many humans suppress or deny feelings because they don't want to feel. Yet, in spirit form, one thing we miss is the ability to feel fully and freely! Not that getting caught up in drama is advisable, but please stop being so terrified of feelings that you create unnecessary drama as a distraction from feeling "real" feelings! Yes, we can (and should) be happier than we are. Life is meant to be fun, it's a great game of creation. However, fear of feeling things we don't want to feel is one of the biggest blocks to feeling good. Ironic, right?
Jan. 17, 2023
This week the Librarians want to talk about the concept of "closure" and how it's really not a thing. Nor is it a thing we'd want if there was! When we seek "closure" what we are really doing is refusing to admit or accept or acknowledge something. Something that is a part of us as well as a part of the world. "Seeking closure" is really us saying, "I don't want to deal with that. I want to ignore it. I don't want it in my life. I want to cut it off." But all of life is continuous. All of life is integrated. All of life is connected. There is no death or ending, there is only transition. Which means there is no closure! Instead of resisting or seeking to "fix" something, why not embrace it instead? Embrace the uncertainty, the transition, the ugliness, or the supposed problem? After all, we all say we want oneness and connection. So why do we resist by constantly clamoring about "closure" instead?
Jan. 24, 2023
This week the Librarians want to talk about Connection and Communion with others. Loneliness is prevalent on the planet. Yet we are easily able to communicate with others. We just get too locked into our preferred method of communication! The deepest, most profound connections are made by going within and connecting from the heart or mind. Not by using our 5 senses and communicating with others through touch, voice, text, or words. Death does not separate us. Neither does language, distance, or access to any sort of tools. If we want to feel true oneness, the way to connection is within.
Jan 31, 2023
The only way to address evil in the world is by looking at the ugliness without us. We all cross the line, we all do harm, we all lie, cheat, and steal in some way. When we justify our actions or think we are somehow better than another because we didn't do "as much" harm, we perpetuate evil. It's only when we acknowledge evil or wrongdoing within us that we can begin to change the world.
Feb. 2, 2023
The power of the fresh start cannot be underestimated. There is virtue in a fresh start. Even when you are building something, or building from something that someone else has created, a fresh start will benefit you. There is so much guilt and shame around waste, but nothing, no creation is ever wasted. Whenever you feel like a fresh start is in order, take it! There is no shame. In the long run a fresh start will always be easier than struggling to fix or use the old. Why bang your head? Wipe it away, NO, bless it away! It was your first draft, and it was glorious in its own right. Now start again and do it differently!
About Lora:
Author, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle help women rebuild their identity and self-worth so they can find the courage to claim what’s possible on the other side of betrayal.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Friday Mar 24, 2023
Friday Mar 24, 2023
Your D-Day Anniversary – How to Honor Yourself & Cope
Like 9-11 and COVID, survivors of infidelity mark time with “before D-day” or “after D-day.”. Yet unlike 9-11 or COVID, you are profoundly alone in your D-day trauma. Which it makes it vitally important to create your own anniversary “celebration” or way to mark and memorialize all that you have been through. No matter how many D-days you have had, no matter if you are happily married to your cheating partner, are still struggling, or are divorced and done, it is still a moment in your life that needs to be remembered with care, honor, and compassion. Here’s how.
Top take-a-ways:
Attachment styles and how the way you were raised impacts the way you feel in your body, especially during traumatic events and anniversaries such as D-day.
The art of giving yourself now what you needed most then, and re-parenting and re-patterning yourself after upsetting events.
How to create space, time, and healing by “being responsive” to yourself and learning how to meet your own needs.
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT