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Friday Oct 14, 2022
Friday Oct 14, 2022
The Couple's Therapy Experience – with Shane Birkel
Have you thought about couple’s therapy? Or, perhaps you have tried therapy but it really wasn’t a fit. In this episode we will talk about the couples’ therapy experience and what you can expect, receive, and gain from a good couple’s therapist.
Top Take-A-Ways:
The difference between normal and healthy and what it means to be in a healthy relationship.
Empowerment, self-worth, and “other based” esteem and why having a foundation of value is the essential first step in relationships.
Understanding “carried emotions” from one’s past versus present-day emotions and operating from the “wise adult self” instead of the wounded child
Why relationships are a choice – for both partners – and why therapy will only work when both partners are willing to do the work.
Shane Birkel is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who sparks change in people’s lives and relationships. He helps individuals and couples who want to feel satisfied in their connection with their partner but feel like no matter what they do it just leads to stress and frustration. He supports them in exploring their history and uncovering patterns they may not even be aware of so that they can begin to have more control of their emotions and be excited about their relationship again.
In his years of experience working with individuals and couples with relationship issues, he knows that you have the ability to make big changes in your life. If you are ready to do the work, you will be amazed at how capable you are to explore parts of yourself you never knew existed. The process of therapy can allow you to grow more quickly than you ever have before.
If you are ready to explore what is getting in your way and figure out what to do next, then give Shane a call at 603-852-3654 or drop me an email at shane@seacoastspark.com. His office is in Dover, NH. You can learn more at https://shanebirkel.com or check out his podcast at https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com.
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.
Friday Oct 07, 2022
Friday Oct 07, 2022
Why It’s Normal to Hate the Other Woman More Than Your Cheating Spouse
Oftentimes women confide to me that they feel angrier at the other woman than they do their cheating spouse. They say that even though it was their partner who broke their wedding vow, they have more rage against the other woman than they do their spouse, and they don’t understand why. This show explains why this very common phenomenon happens, and helps you to deal with it so going forward you can have peace and trust other women again.
Top Take-A-Ways:
Why the innocent spouse, who is still operating in “partnership mode,” will naturally defend her partner against threats and may be more upset at the other woman than she is at her partner.
How learning about the affair partner triggers a woman’s insecurities, reopens old wounds, and sends her into a comparison game that she perceives as being against the other woman instead of against her partner.
How violation of “the woman code” and being betrayed by another woman, often feels like a worse betrayal than being betrayed by a man, but is rarely addressed in betrayal recovery programs.
The truth about why your partner was attracted to the other woman, and what it says about you.
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.
Friday Sep 30, 2022
Friday Sep 30, 2022
How to Increase Your Frequency & Manifest – Even After Betrayal with Wendy Kennedy
Exploring manifestation, Universal Law, and energetic frequency is an exceptional way to release trauma and fear so you can move from a state of victimhood to a state of peace, non-judgment (for yourself and others) and understand the gifts and lessons of your situation better.
Top Take-A-Ways:
How to consciously project energy and understand what is being reflected back to you without attachment or shame so you can learn to attract what you want, instead of what you don’t want.
The energetic difference between standing in power and standing in fear.
Why we sometimes suppress instead of expressing our own divine light and how to increase your frequency, heal, and begin living your best, most powerful and connected life.
Seeing and understanding both the lessons and blessings in our “pain cycles” and using Universal Law and higher wisdom to let go and become empowered instead of staying stuck in feeling like a victim for longer than we want.
Wendy Kennedy is an intuitive, empath, and channel. For more than two decades she has used her gifts and abilities to work with beings in other realms and dimensions, assisting others in recognizing and releasing old patterns and helping them to live more whole and integrated lives. The clear and compassionate wisdom shared through Wendy facilitates a shift in perspective from that of separation and limitation to connection and multidimensional existence.
In 1995 Wendy began channeling, working first with her own angelic guides before becoming reacquainted with The 9th Dimensional Pleiadian Collective, whom she primarily channels at her public events and in private sessions. In addition to the Pleiadians, she works with beings from Sirius, Lyra, and Arcturus as well as other higher dimensional, celestial beings.
Wendy currently lectures and channels for clients around the world. She was one of the six channels featured in the movie and book, Tuning in: Spirit Channelers in America. Her work can also be found in the newly released book compiled by Martine Vallée, The Great Human Potential: Walking in One’s Own Light, which is now available in six languages.
Learn more, and join her community at www.HigherFrequencies.net
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.
Friday Sep 23, 2022
Friday Sep 23, 2022
Why It's Healthy to Not be Okay – The Power of Sacred Grief & Rage
The pain and devastation of infidelity is something that only other survivors can truly appreciate. And while everyone loves a happy ending, a great comeback story, and triumphing over unspeakable tragedy it’s vitally important for anyone who has been betrayed to acknowledge and validate the magnitude of their experience. While mindset does matter and we can choose to be happy, unless and until we have learned to sit in our misery and pain, embrace our brokenness, and allow ourselves to be the victims that we indeed are, we delay our own healing.
Join Lora for a year to release, clear, and let go of the past, so you can cultivate your ideal new life. Learn more HERE. It all starts September 23rd, Fall Equinox, with a sacred Bridge Crossing Ceremony where you will leave the past behind and cross into the next chapter of your life.
Top Take-A-Ways:
Understand our collective discomfort and inability to deal with “negative” emotions and learn what it means to “hold space” for your own or somebody else’s grief and pain.
Experiment with a “Sacred Anger” practice that can be done by yourself or with a partner (ideally with the person who hurt you) so you can embody your rage and use it as a catalyst for good instead of hide from it or suppress it.
Develop your own “Sacred Dance” practice and begin to flow emotion through your body instead of keeping it stuck inside.
Music mentioned in this podcast, that is Lora’s favorite for her own Sacred Dance practice:
Deva Premal & Miten: https://devapremalmiten.com/
Imagine Dragons: https://www.imaginedragonsmusic.com
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.
Friday Sep 16, 2022
Friday Sep 16, 2022
Letting Go – How to Release the Past & Step into the Future
While most everyone loves the idea of letting go of the past, moving on, and steeping boldly into a brilliant and beautiful new future, the truth of the matter is that letting go is hard. Nobody likes the idea of death or loss. Change takes awareness, intention, and the ability to sit uncomfortably in the season of loss, grief, and uncertainty. But the rewards are always well-worth the cost!
Join Lora for a year to release, clear, and let go of the past, so you can cultivate your ideal new life. Learn more HERE. It all starts September 23rd, Fall Equinox, with a sacred Bridge Crossing Ceremony where you will leave the past behind and cross into the next chapter of your life.
Top Take-A-Ways:
Using the wisdom of the seasons to transform yourself and your life. Fall – harvesting, letting go, and embracing death, Winter – decay, hibernation and rest, Spring – planting of well-cultivated dreams, and Summer – celebration and growth of the new.
Why right now is the best time to lean into change, and what to do if you aren’t quite ready to face change.
Embracing death, decay, and disappointment and why the “nutrients” from a shattered past nurture and enable your future to grow.
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.
Saturday Sep 10, 2022
Saturday Sep 10, 2022
Unbroken – Choosing Your Hard and Deciding to Thrive
Childhood trauma is something we hear a lot about. Usually in terms of it being an excuse for bad behavior. Such as, “He cheated because he had a terrible childhood.” Today’s guest is Michael Anthony “Unbroken,” a powerful coach who not only experienced many unthinkable traumas; fell into a litany of trauma-induced behaviors such as cheating on his partner, drugs, alcohol, food, and more; but he also took a hard look at himself, got brutally honest, and completely transformed his life.
Top Take-A-Ways:
How radical honesty and vulnerability about what’s really going on within and around you (which means getting out of victim mode and choosing to heal) powerfully transforms your life and ends generational trauma once and for all.
Solutions versus excuses and how to craft yourself anew so that by the end of your life you can be without regret.
The difference between taking care of yourself and taking it easy, and why most people are too easy on themselves and never make the changes they desire.
The power of coaching and having someone to push you to break free from excuses, own your desires, and take full responsibility for both the good and the bad in your life.
Michael was born to a hyper-abusive drug addict mother who cut his finger off at 4 years old, a step-father you pray you never have, and a racist grandmother that pushed him into an identity crisis. By the time he was 9, his family was in poverty and often homeless all while being a member of the Mormon Church. At twelve, he was adopted by his grandmother and quickly turned to drugs and alcohol to survive the continuing abuse. Despite multiple learning disabilities and not graduating high school on time, Michael found success in Corporate America in his early twenties. However, success only made things worse. Michael found himself morbidly obese, high and drunk daily, and ultimately self-sabotaging everything around him. It was not until finding his inner power through his Mirror Moment and choosing to do whatever it took to work through childhood trauma that his life really began.
Michael Anthony is the author of the best-selling book Think Unbroken and is a coach, mentor, and educator for adult survivors of child abuse. Michaels spends his time helping other survivors get out of "The Vortex" to become the hero of their own story and take their life back. Michael hosts the Think Unbroken podcast, teaches at Think Unbroken Academy and is on a mission to create change in the world.
And he is @ MichaelUnbroken on all social media:
https://www.facebook.com/Michaelunbroken
https://www.twitter.com/michaelunbroken
https://www.instagram.com/michaelunbroken
https://www.linkedin.com/in/traumasurvivormentorandcoach/
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.
Friday Sep 02, 2022
Friday Sep 02, 2022
Why an Affair can be a Catalyst for a Great Marriage
Changing the way we react or respond, and integrating new habits, can be hard. Whether it’s committing to walking more and cutting out sugar, or to take three deep breaths before responding to a challenging question so you don’t default into yelling, change can be challenging. If you are anything like the rest of us, even though you know what you are supposed to do, doing it can be hard! As a self-proclaimed self-help junkie, I often knew what I was supposed to do to – I just didn’t do it!
Until learning about my husband’s affairs. Suddenly because my life and I were both in shambles, there were no more excuses, no more reasons why I couldn’t create myself and my life anew. While an affair is devastating to be sure, it can also be a catalyst for something better. Whether that “something better” is a new relationship, no relationship, or a reinvigoration of the old, this show will inspire you to take action, right now, and begin creating yourself, your life and your relationships, exactly as you want them to be, Right. Now!
Top Take-A-Ways:
Using your obsessive thoughts as a cue for new behaviors, so you can restructure yourself and your life with ease.
Taking control of the quality of your relationships and life by finally doing what you’ve always known needs doing, but never got around to implementing.
Rebuilding your life and identity using the 5-Step Betrayal Recovery Process of FLAUNT!
o F-Find your Fetish
o L-Laugh out Loud
o AU-Accept Unconditionally
o N-Navigate the Negative
o T-Trust in your Truth
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.
Friday Aug 26, 2022
Friday Aug 26, 2022
How to Help Someone You Love Without Losing Yourself
Your partner cheated on you. But now he’s sorry and realizes that he’s got a lot of work to do – both on himself and the marriage. Which is great because that’s what you want too. But now, you’re being asked to be patient with him as he goes through his healing! What? That’s not fair! He’s the one who cheated! He hurt you and now you have to support him through his healing! As well as continue to manage your own healing and everything else that life requires.
Because there are no easy answer and each relationship and situation is different, today’s show will walk you through a series of questions that you can ask yourself to determine whether or not it’s worth it to stay and to continue to invest in the relationship, including how much is enough to give, and how much is too much.
Top Take-A-Ways:
Why helping your partner heal without losing yourself is an art, not a science, that requires constant balancing.
The importance of knowing where you stop and your partner begins so you can assess how you are feeling and know what this journey is costing you in terms of time, money, energy, and emotion.
How the idea of codependency (while valid and important to stay aware of) can be overrated when dealing with trauma and healing.
Hard Truth 1:Why playing the victim or the martyr (“I did all of this for him and look how badly he treated me!”) is an excuse for not growing up, making some hard choices, and doing our own work.
Hard Truth 2: When you truly love another person, you want what’s best for them. Even if what’s best for them, is not what you want or what you thinkis best for them. Therefore, if you choose to help with healing, you must let go of your attachment to what you think that healing should look like.
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.
Friday Aug 19, 2022
Friday Aug 19, 2022
Shadow Work – What it is & How it Helps – Solo Show
Shadow work is important any time, but especially when healing from infidelity. All humans are a mix of light and dark, positive and negative, good and bad. Ironically, in times of conflict, we tend to see ourselves in the best possible light and our significant other in the worst possible light. This sets up a victim/perpetrator dynamic that creates more contrast and pain and cuts us off from our own power. Shadow work is one way that can break that dynamic, move you out of victim mode, and empower you to take responsibility for you own healing, even if your partner refuses to cooperate or you fear that you are too broken.
Top Take-a-Ways:
The difference between therapy and coaching and how shadow work in coaching can change the way you react and respond immediately, no years of talking required!
How homing in on what irritates you the most about others can help you see your own blocks, blind spots, and shadows.
Why our best qualities and traits are often masks for our darkest shadows.
Accessing the pain beneath the shadow.
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.
Friday Aug 12, 2022
Friday Aug 12, 2022
“Do Not be Afraid of the Journey” – With Kerri Hummingbird
Are you ready to break out of the “right-wrong game” that too many of us play when we’ve been wounded? Are you ready to let go of labels such as “empath, narcissist, betrayer” or “betrayed” and slip into oneness, wisdom, and the inner abundance that is your divine birthright? Then this is the show for you. Get ready to go deep, to access the wisdom and joy of your heart, and to consciously choose healing.
Top Take-a-Ways:
Hear the story, perspective, and pain of someone who cheated and how her rage, anger, and false projected images of others led to her personal unraveling – and later, to a new identity and map for her life.
How to “Claim Healing for Yourself” and take responsibility for dreaming and creating the next chapter of your life.
Understanding why pain is an opening that can take you from constriction and shame to freedom and love.
Breaking out of the pyramid of disempowerment (victim, perpetrator, and rescuer) and recreating your most important relationships in a way that’s healthy and empowering for all.
Kerri Hummingbird is a soul guide, healer, and messenger who helps bring indigenous wisdom to the Western woman. She believes that we are being called to reclaim our greatest power through a series of tough initiations that will ultimately, if we choose healing, open our hearts and set us free.
Her book, The Second Wave: Transcending the Human Drama will help you reconcile your past and claim your future. Learn more and connect with her at https://kerrihummingbird.com/ Her six month, Inner Medicine Foundations course begins in August, so if you feel called, reach out for a free discovery session soon, and if you are ready to go deep and access some serious healing and wisdom, her one year Inner Medicine program begins in February.
The Second Wave: Transcending the Human Drama Book on Amazon
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
FLAUNT! is brought to you by Revel the new kind of social platform built exclusively for women over 40. Members make connections at virtual and in-real-life events, start conversations from super serious to silly, and learn from experts on topics from financial wellness for women, managing menopause, and dozens more. Explore our community of like minded, smart, fabulous, and fun women at hellorevel.com/flaunt.