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Friday May 13, 2022
Friday May 13, 2022
How to Rebuild Trust After an Affair – With Yourself, Your Partner, & Life
What does it take to trust again after an affair? It begins with a radical understanding of the multitude of ways that you were betrayed. Contrary to what you might think, an act of infidelity is more than a single betrayal. It involves a breach of emotional, spiritual, financial, marital, and sexual trust. Even more, it violates the trust you have in the way the world is supposed to work, what it means to be married, and what you thought your life was supposed to be like. Of course it’s difficult to trust again after infidelity! But it’s not impossible. Let this show be the first step in understanding the complex nature of trust, untangling the many ways that you were betrayed, and reconnecting to yourself so you can finally get unstuck and start healing.
Top Take-a-ways:
The importance of defining and untangling the many ways that you had your trust violated.
The difference between losing trust in a person, an idea, a script that you have in your head about the way things are supposed to be, and trust in yourself.
Why rebuilding trust in yourself always comes first, and how to begin trusting your intuition and having your own back once again.
Why it takes at least two years to rebuild trust after an affair.
The eight-step process for rebuilding trust with your partner (and why facing difficulty and going through more difficult times is necessary to fully restore trust.)
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Spring Sale! One-on-one affair recovery coaching for women who have been cheated on by their intimate partner who are committed to:
Overcoming the devastation, pain, and obsessive thoughts and reclaiming peace,
Rebuilding trust in themselves, their intuition, and the world,
Making sense of their story regardless of their partner’s participation,
Reconciling the life they have now with the life they thought they’d have,
Moving on with confidence and clarity – whether they are working things out with their partner or moving on alone, and
Bringing themselves back to life again, stronger and happier than before!
Only $333 per month for one 90-minute session per month, a monthly, 30-minute self-hypnosis to use between sessions, weekly prep work to augment your healing, and real-time Voxer support. Lora@loracheadle for more information or to apply.
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Friday May 06, 2022
Friday May 06, 2022
Toxic Masculinity – What it’s Really About
Buckle up for a unique perspective on the phenomenon of toxic masculinity! Unlike Lora’s regular shows, this episode features a live Q&A session where Lora channels her guides, “The Librarians,” to answer questions around toxic masculinity, the role of religion on the planet, and how we can best manage and protect our integrity and energy when confronted with toxicity.
As with any live, channeled show, answers tend to be revealed in “spiral form,” meaning that the several peripheral answers are addressed first, before honing-in to the final, zinger of an answer. Be prepared to have your mind blown, your perspective shifted, and your heart opened.
Top Take-a-ways:
What we perceive as “toxic masculinity” is being brought onto the planet by “warrior souls” committed to pushing humanity towards spiritual growth and understanding.
A new paradigm for the idea of “being triggered,” why it’s not a trigger, but an “infection” of a preexisting wound, and how it’s our own responsibility to heal that infection.
Exploring both the positive and negative aspects of religion and how to make sure we stay in its light and away from its shadow of guilt, shame, and transferred control.
The divine soul-work of transmuting and processing your own pain, and why things like charity and helping out can disconnect people from their divinity and create toxicity instead.
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Spring Sale! One-on-one affair recovery coaching for women who have been cheated on by their intimate partner who are committed to:
Overcoming the devastation, pain, and obsessive thoughts and reclaiming peace,
Rebuilding trust in themselves, their intuition, and the world,
Making sense of their story regardless of their partner’s participation,
Reconciling the life they have now with the life they thought they’d have,
Moving on with confidence and clarity – whether they are working things out with their partner or moving on alone, and
Bringing themselves back to life again, stronger and happier than before!
Only $333 per month for one 90-minute session per month, a monthly, 30-minute self-hypnosis to use between sessions, weekly prep work to augment your healing, and real-time Voxer support. Lora@loracheadle for more information or to apply.
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Friday Apr 29, 2022
Friday Apr 29, 2022
The Top Three Ways to “Get Over” an Affair and Start Living, Loving, and Enjoying Life Again – Solo Show
“I wish I could just get over it” and “I want it all to go away!” are two of the most common refrains of the betrayed partner. Even though infidelity leaves you devastated, racked with obsessive thoughts, and wondering if you will ever feel “normal” or happy again, the truth is, you can get over your partner’s affair. Learning to love yourself and to enjoy life again takes time, but like any wound, this pain will heal too.
Top Take-a-ways:
Why realizing that some things you will never get over is the beginning of healing.
Defining what the “Getting Over It” means to you now, and in the future.
Differentiating between the things you can control, and the things that you cannot.
Spring Sale!!!! One-on-one affair recovery coaching for women who have been cheated on by their intimate partner who are committed to:
Overcoming the devastation, pain, and obsessive thoughts and reclaiming peace,
Rebuilding trust in themselves, their intuition, and the world,
Making sense of their story regardless of their partner’s participation,
Reconciling the life they have now with the life they thought they’d have,
Moving on with confidence and clarity – whether they are working things out with their partner or moving on alone, and
Bringing themselves back to life again, stronger and happier than before!
Only $333 per month for one 90-minute session per month, a monthly, 30-minute self-hypnosis to use between sessions, weekly prep work to augment your healing, and real-time Voxer support. Lora@loracheadle for more information or to apply.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Friday Apr 08, 2022
Friday Apr 08, 2022
Healthy Hormones Despite Infidelity or Feeling Betrayed by your Changing Body – With Dr. Deb Matthew
Hormones are chemical messengers that control the way you feel, react, and relate. Hormones are what make you who you are on the inside. So, when something stressful or traumatic happens, and your hormones go out of whack, you’re not going to feel like you normally do! Whether it’s menopause, the stress of infidelity, or you suddenly feel betrayed by your own body because you no longer recognize the woman staring back at you in the mirror, this show will help. Learn to get your hormones under control so you can get back to being you and feel better fast!
Top Take-a-ways:
Why it’s not the amount of stress that matters, it’s how you let that stress impact you that matters, and how to increase your tolerance to stress and your resilience in life.
How, even though it’s so common to be exhausted in the morning – and reach for coffee, crash in the afternoon – and reach for carbs, and then get a second wind right before bed – and reach for a glass of wine. it’s not a normal way to live.
Learn all about the cortisol – the master hormone – and it’s impact on the immune system, blood sugar levels, weight gain, and all other hormones.
Discover the essential balance of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone and what signs and symptoms to look for to determine if your hormones might be out of balance, and most importantly, what to do to correct this imbalance.
Dr. Deb Matthew MD, The Happy Hormones Doctor, is a best-selling author, international speaker, educator, wife and mom of four boys. After suffering for years with fatigue and irritability, her quest to restore her personal health led her to change everything about her practice of medicine. She has been featured on national podcasts, radio, and broadcast shows, including NBC, ABC, CBS, and FOX.
As a Functional Medicine Practitioner, she helps clients finds the root cause of their hormone imbalances. Download your free book This is NOT Normal at www.ItsYourHormones.com and learn more about her practice at www.signaturewellness.org.
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Friday Apr 01, 2022
Friday Apr 01, 2022
Why Men Cheat: The Top Reasons & Secret Underlying Causes– Solo Show
If you have been betrayed, you understand the obsession with figuring out why men cheat. But here’s the thing. Too often, infidelity or affair recovery programs focus on the reasons why men cheat and miss the million-dollar question: Why does it matter? Getting radically honest about the underlying cause of the cheating is what matters. And the reason it matters is because it helps you understand what happened, disentangle from the drama of the surface reasons, and ultimately let yourself off the hook so you can move forward and heal.
Top take-a-ways:
The top seven reasons men cheat.
The truth behind why men can love you – and still cheat.
Why fear, shame, and anger are the unaddressed root cause of betrayal.
How understanding the root cause of betrayal helps you and your recovery.
The societal differences between the way men and women are raised and how those differences impact fear, shame, anger, and the tendency to cheat.
Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile!
https://loracheadle.com/infidelity-betrayal/why-do-men-cheat-the-top-7-reasons-secret-underlying-causes/
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.NakedSelfWorth.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Friday Mar 25, 2022
Friday Mar 25, 2022
Mistakes Wives Make Trying to get their Husband Back –with Laura Doyle
Have you ever wished for a complete do-over of your relationship? Whether you are working things out, have no idea what you are going to do, or have already left but are determined to do things “right” next time around, learning which mistakes you are making will help! Even without your partner’s conscious effort, you can create more harmony, intimacy, and joy in your relationship today using these six intimacy skills.
Top take-a-ways:
How chronic unhappiness breeds discontent and why making yourself ridiculously happy, no matter how much of a crisis you are in, is the first step in healing.
Why being “too helpful” in relationships can backfire and how phrases such as “I trust you” and “Whatever you think” allow you to disengage, restore mutual respect, and inspire your partner to step up and do their own work more readily than when you try to “fix” or force your partner to change.
Gratitude and the power of “spouse-fulfilling prophesies” in bringing out the best in your partner – no matter how hopeless the situation may seem.
How to be authentic in your communication and say what you desire in a way that triggers your partner’s “hero gene” and desire to serve.
New York Times Bestselling Author and relationship expert Laura Doyle was the perfect wife...until she actually got married. When she told her husband how to be tidier, more romantic, and more ambitious, he avoided her. So she dragged him to marriage counseling and nearly divorced him. In desperation, she asked happily married women for their secrets, and that’s when she got her miracle: the man who had wooed her returned. Laura’s books have been translated into 19 languages in 30 countries and accidentally started a worldwide movement. Laura’s mission is to end world divorce. She is the founder of the international relationship coach training school Laura Doyle Connect, the star of Empowered Wives on Amazon Prime, the Creator of The Ridiculously Happy Wife program, the host of The Empowered Wife Podcast and she has appeared on The Today Show, Good Morning America and The View. She has helped over 15,000 women fix their relationships--even the hopeless ones-- without their husband’s effort. But the thing that Laura is most proud of is her gratifying 31-year marriage with her hilarious husband John, who has been dressing himself since before she was born
Learn more and get your copy of:
The Three Mistakes Wives Make Trying to Get His Time & Attention at www.lauradoyle.org
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.NakedSelfWorth.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Friday Mar 11, 2022
Friday Mar 11, 2022
Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts After Infidelity– Solo Show
Whenever our brains have "open loops" aka unanswered questions, they automatically start searching for answers. They search and they search, and they search until they find answers for those questions so they can close the loop and move on. Until the brain finds a satisfactory answer, it keeps seeking answers. That’s why you are having obsessive thoughts. Here’s how to find peace and stop.
Top take-a-ways:
Understanding the difference between the need to process, find answers, and reclaim your story and indulging in unhealthy obsessive thoughts.
How to stop letting toxic thought highjack your wellbeing so you can break out of the trauma and think clearly again.
The power of gratitude and top tips for calming down the nervous system and learning how to function healthily again.
Why obsessive thoughts can be the gateway to healing, understanding, and writing “the rest of the story.”
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I can't wait for everything this year has in store for you!!!
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.NakedSelfWorth.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Friday Mar 04, 2022
Friday Mar 04, 2022
Breathwork For Emotional Release – With R. Christian Minson
Breath is the foundation of life, the doorway to multidimensionality, and how you breath determines how you feel on this human journey. Betrayal leads to a loss of trust, a loss of control, and a loss of flow. Breathwork is a tool that can help you regulate and calm your nervous system, relax and accept the present moment, and feel better fast. The choice is yours: You can either stumble through the forest or can find a path that will lead you through more easily. Let Breathwork be that path!
Top take-a-ways:
Understanding why all emotions have value and how to learn to trust your breath so you can relax and recover after infidelity or other emotional trauma.
Why every breath you take is either reinforcing negative emotional experiences or creating positive ones, and how to consciously repattern your life experience using breath.
How to move through and process the emotional backlog of bitterness, pain, and resentment post-betrayal.
The truth of Freud’s saying, “Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and will come forth later in uglier ways.” and the necessity of releasing the cellular memory of trauma if you want to heal.
The secret reason we hold our breath, and how breath-holding is a suspension of life, a momentary death, where you don’t want to move forward and face what’s next.
Remember, whatever posture you meet life with, is how life will meet you! And as Michael Blair says, “It’s not about feeling better, it’s about getting better at feeling.” But once you do, you will feel better! What kind of life do you want to create?
R. Christian Minson is an International Speaker, Best-Selling Contributing Author, Trainer, Coach, and the Founder of Breathflow Wellness International, a world-renowned transformational holistic health and wellness platform to share the life-changing techniques of breathwork. A former Monk, Christian spent 10 years in the YogicMonastery of Self-Realization Fellowship,founded by Paramahansa Yogananda (author of Autobiography of a Yogi), in Los Angeles to serve as Yogananda’s instrument for the dissemination of his writings and teachings, including Kriya Yoga.
After years searching for deeper meaning of life in the Monastery, Christian now teaches and guides others to find meaning in their own personal and professional lives by delivering inspiration and practical real-world tools that result in higher levels of vibration, creation, alignment, fulfillment and performance. Christian was formerly the Resident Director of the Breathwork Program at RYTHMIA Life Advancement Center in Costa Rica, specializing in fusing ancient wisdom and modern techniques for healing and creating a life you love.
Christian has worked alongside the well-known thought leader, Gregg Braden, and has shared his message and techniques across the globe—including the Middle East, Europe, Mexico, Canada, and all over the USA. He has shared his message with businesspeople, thought-leaders, princesses, athletes and celebrities, students, and everyday seekers of a better way of life. Visit his website at www.breathflow.com.
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I can't wait for everything this year has in store for you!!!
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.NakedSelfWorth.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Friday Feb 25, 2022
Friday Feb 25, 2022
Fawn: Why Smart Women Ignore Red Flags with Nischa Phair
You’ve probably heard of fight, flight, or freeze, but did you know that fawning (going out of your way to please someone) is also a trauma response? While fawning is a common stress response for many women, it’s especially prevalent after infidelity or betrayal. Learn how to identify, manage, and stop fawning behaviors so you can create and hold better, more authentic boundaries.
Top take-a-ways:
Why so many women claim the “don’t like sex,” and how to reclaim and reorient to pleasure by understanding the difference between the “stress management mode” and the “pleasure production mode.”
Reveling in the pride of surviving your trauma and releasing shame when you wake up one day and wonder, “How did this happen?” by understanding that fawning in a biological stress response (not an emotional defect) that it is trained into us as women, as our instincts are slowly trained out.
The reasons why we can’t see red flags in relationships until it’s too late, and why we explain away unhealthy, toxic masculinity and behaviors.
Top tip!The power of the “Somatic Pause” (which is a body-full, instead of mindful break) and how to incorporate little moments of pleasure throughout the day.
How pleasure helps us see the truth of who we are and what we need to do to heal ourselves and feel better.
Nischa Heron Phair is an author, researcher, trauma-informed sex educator and the founder of SomaBody Trauma-Informed Pleasure Work. She works with survivors and those recovering from unhealthy relationships to help them reclaim a nourishing, authentic and soulfully-aligned relationship to pleasure that supports them to live more purposefully in every area of their lives.
Her book, Fawn: When No Looks Like Yes is the first book to be written about fawning in the context of sex and consent. In addition to sounding the alarm, Phair attempts to answer the million-dollar question: How can sex and intimacy thrive in a post-#metoo, post-pandemic reality? Part exposé, part self-study guide, part memoir, Fawn is a rousing and heartfelt call to celebrate our authentic sexuality and to invite more integrity and intention into our sex lives and relationships, whether they be casual or long-term. Learn more at: https://www.nischaphair.com
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I can't wait for everything this year has in store for you!!!
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.NakedSelfWorth.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Friday Feb 18, 2022
Friday Feb 18, 2022
What is Betrayal? Discover its Causes, Symptoms & Solutions – Solo Show
Whether your betrayal was recent or several years back, being betrayed makes you feel like your insides have been shattered. Like you will never recover, feel happy, or find joy again. But despite the way you feel right now, betrayal can make you stronger. If you choose to let it.
Top take-a-ways:
What is betrayal? – From its definition, cause, examples, and repercussions.
Discover the root cause of most betrayal and why being betrayed is part of being human.
Learn why, when someone betrays you, it says nothing about you and everything about them.
Explore why, even when it comes to infidelity, people who cheat do so because of their own vulnerabilities, fear, shame or even lack of integrity and not because of you.
Become aware of the symptoms of betrayal and how to overcome them, even if you don’t think you can.
Read Lora’s full blog on Recovering & Thriving After Infidelity Lora is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love.
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I can't wait for everything this year has in store for you!!!
Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!
Untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover the power, beauty, and joy that’s been inside you all along. All with a wink and a smile!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.NakedSelfWorth.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!